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Our All-Access Pass Will Help You Heal Your Attachment Style, Gain Emotional Mastery And Completely Transform Your Life

The Personal Development School is the leading online school for reprogramming the subconscious mind and healing attachment styles.

Our All-Access Pass membership teaches you practical and proven techniques that target the root cause of painful emotions, negative thinking patterns and relationship issues so you can create lasting change in all areas of your life (and simply be a happier, more fulfilled person!).

You’ll learn the easy, step by step formulas to:

  • Understanding your needs so you can finally feel understood and connected to the people in your life

  • Understanding the needs of others so that you can understand them and not take their actions personally

  • Wipe out limiting beliefs so that you can feel confident, empowered and authentic when it comes to love

  • Set boundaries so that you can feel safe and free to express yourself (and stop getting burnt out!)

  • Leave the past behind so you can heal your heart, move on from past wounds and have a powerful reset in your personal life

  • Hold healthy standards in relationship so you don’t settle for less than you deserve

  • Transform “situationships” into healthy and clear relationship dynamics where you can stop wondering and chasing

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Practical, Proven And Powerful Techniques That Get Real Results Fast

Practical, Proven And Powerful Techniques That Get Real Results Fast

From surveying over 20,000 students who have taken our courses, they report:

If single: A 3X improvement in confidence and a better dating experience

If coupled: A 50% improvement in the relationship with their first major relationship breakthrough in under 7 days!

Our techniques work directly with your subconscious mind, which is the only place lasting change takes place.

And the good news is that you don’t need to be a neuroscientist or master meditator to reprogram your subconscious mind as our easy-to-use tools will guide you step-by-step so you can experience real results in a very short amount of time.

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Here’s What Some Of Our Students Say:

Joining PDS was the single best decision I made last year as it opened my eyes to the possibility that I could dramatically improve the quality of my relationships and that my past did not have to define my future. I learned about my attachment style, core wounds and personality needs and how these have been affecting the quality of my life currently.

Thais gives clear instructions as to how you can reprogramme your subconscious mind, learn to communicate more effectively and excel in all 7 areas of your life to get rid of so many roadblocks that may be holding you back from living your best life. The PDS community is a truly supportive environment for personal growth and healing, my only regret is that I did not find all this out sooner as it has been truly life changing for me! <3

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- Leona D

PDS has impacted my life immensely. From creating a healthy relationship to self, improving my family dynamics, impacting my awareness of my subconscious programming, to providing the skills/tools for improving my communication with others in all relationships.

It has honestly changed my life for the better and am on my path towards becoming a more secure person. They have created such an amazing community that is extremely supportive and is full of wonderful people. PDS has grown into something I am very proud to be a part of and look forward to seeing where this journey takes me.

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- Jake

Hi! I’m Carrie from northern California, USA. I’ve been a member of the PDS school since around June, 2020.

This experience has been a life changer for me. I have always been a seeker and self-improvement fan, but the courses and webinars with Thais as well as the zoom meetings with the community led by Mike, have given me actionable tools and a supportive safe space to discuss and practice them. I am so fortunate to have found this school and so many friendly folks to share this journey!

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- Carrie LaPorte

PDS replaced therapy for me. I was a Fearful Avoidant, and I could not explain why I struggled in relationships. The constant need for connection and the fear of having one was very draining. I was in a race to achieve something in life, but nothing made me happy. My emotions were extreme be it happiness, anxiety, or anger! I am so grateful to PDS that finally I realize that my worth is not related to anything I achieve but to the person that I am. Also learning about other attachment styles helped me to become more compassionate to people around me.

In short, PDS literally changed my life.

- Athira D

I highly recommend the All Access or Lifetime Pass. It’s a comprehensive program that WILL change your life if you put in the work. Definitely worth the VALUE! Thais and her team do an exceptional job of making you feel seen, heard, and understood. They are always finding innovative ways to improve the school. The webinars, socials, and study groups provide an amazing place to meet supportive like-minded people who share similar struggles. I am so grateful for everything PDS has to offer! :)

- Melissa K

PDS is an incredible resource. The work is powerful. It’s helped me to heal some hard wounds and change my life to one that is more balanced, more joyful and based in a deep sense of self-love and understanding. You choose how and how fast to heal and you get to do it in an environment steeped in compassion, connection, integrity and personal accountability. For anyone who is ready to really heal themselves, PDS is filled with practical insights and powerful tools.

- Tamara G

I discovered PDS shortly after my 19th birthday, even being one of the youngest in the school, everyone is so welcoming!!

I really love how Thais Gibson covers so many topics and goes above and beyond to cater to the needs of the members. The post-webinar breakout rooms have so many brilliant, and like-minded individuals who I always look forward to talking to!

PDS has had such an amazing impact on my relationships, my self-esteem and has given me valuable self-awareness. The tools within PDS have provided me with the strength, and ability to heal, almost completely from my anxiety, and I feel so much more confident within myself

- Tappy

Here’s What You Get:

Here’s What You Get:

1. Empowering Courses with Simple Formulas and Step-by-Step Solutions to See the Results You Want in Your Relationships
  • This includes tailored courses for each personal challenge you might be facing like: Setting Boundaries to End Compulsive People-Pleasing, Learning Your Relationship Needs to Feel Truly Loved, Skyrocket Your Self-Esteem, Leave Burnout Behind, How to Repair Any Relationship and More!

  • Each course is only 1 hour or so in length and will give you the simple, step by step ingredients you need to see massive transformation in a short period of time.

  • Each course has a PDF workbook with steps and exercises to get results fast!

2. Attend Weekly Live Webinars And Q&A Sessions

Need additional guidance as you go through the courses and the deeper parts of yourself? As a member you’ll also get access to:

  • These webinars are optional! They are not a required part of any course but are simply there for extra support and connection! Thais will be there personally 4X each week to answer your questions, guide you on your journey and help you see any blindspots you might be missing!

  • Live webinars – Each week I’ll break down one of the courses in more detail and share even more tips and examples on how to use the tools and techniques

  • Q&A sessions – got an emotional or relationship problem that’s keeping you up at night? During these calls I’ll personally answer your questions and provide guidance on how to resolve your biggest challenges

  • Access past recordings – listen (or re-listen) to all of our webinars and Q&As whenever is convenient for you so you never miss out

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3. Connect With A Community That Truly Understands You

You don’t need to go through this healing journey on your own.

As a member, you can join our online study groups, sharing circles, self-love routines and other support groups that are led by our trained coaches.

Plus you’ll also get access to our private online forum and Facebook group where you can connect with like-minded people also working on improving their emotions, relationships and attachment styles.

This is also an optional feature and is not a required part of seeing massive results. It is meant to be here for daily guidance, inspiration and connection with like-minded people if you find that to be a supportive part of your learning process!

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Join Today To Get Instant Access To:
  • Our library of breakthrough courses that will get you a first major breakthrough in under 7 days!
  • Weekly webinars and Q&A sessions where you can ask Thais questions and get even more support (all are recorded so you’ll never miss out)
  • Community support to suit your needs, including our online forum and weekly support groups led by our trained coaches
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Take a sneak peek at some of the courses that have helped thousands of students heal their attachment style, gain emotional mastery and transform their lives from the inside out.

Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Summer 2025)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Summer 2025)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 12 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Start Here (Live Summer '25)
Start Here (Live Summer '25)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Spring 2025)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Spring 2025)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 12 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Start Here (Live Spring '25)
Start Here (Live Spring '25)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Winter 2025)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Winter 2025)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 12 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Start Here (Live Winter '25)
Start Here (Live Winter '25)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Fall 2024 - Cohort 2)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Fall 2024 - Cohort 2)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 12 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Start Here (Live Fall '24 - Cohort 2)
Start Here (Live Fall '24 - Cohort 2)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Attachment Bootcamp Library
Attachment Bootcamp Library

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Fall 2024)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Fall 2024)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 12 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Start Here (Live Fall '24)
Start Here (Live Fall '24)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Start Here (Live Spring '24)
Start Here (Live Spring '24)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Spring 2024)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Spring 2024)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 12 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Start Here (Live Winter '24)
Start Here (Live Winter '24)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Winter 2024)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Winter 2024)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 12 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Start Here (Live Summer '23)
Start Here (Live Summer '23)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Start Here (On Demand)
Start Here (On Demand)

This welcome course introduces the prerequisite and intensive course material for the Integrated Attachment Theory program.

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Overcome Limerence and Extreme Infatuation to Increase Your Self-Esteem
Overcome Limerence and Extreme Infatuation to Increase Your Self-Esteem

In this course, we define extreme infatuation, otherwise known as limerence, and how to overcome it to increase self-esteem.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Summer 2023)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Summer 2023)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 12 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Parentification
Parentification

This is a course we will cover parentification, the role reversal of child and parent from an emotional and instrumental perspective, and its impacts on you as an adult.

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How To Master The Dating Stage of Relationships
How To Master The Dating Stage of Relationships

In this course, we will cover what the 6 stages in every relationship are and how to master them all.

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 7 Days to Transform Relationships
7 Days to Transform Relationships

Learn to transform your relationships in as little as 7 days!

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How to Thrive During Times of Uncertainty
How to Thrive During Times of Uncertainty

In this course, we'll talk about how to effectively handle uncertainty by developing a strong sense of inner strength, resilience, self-trust, and other vital skills that help you gracefully navigate change.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Spring 2023)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Spring 2023)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 8 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Fall 2022 Live)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Fall 2022 Live)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 8 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Heal from a Breakup Bootcamp: Start Here
Heal from a Breakup Bootcamp: Start Here

Courses in this program will heal pain associated with a breakup and help you regain your peace of mind.

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Fearful Avoidant Path to Secure: Start Here
Fearful Avoidant Path to Secure: Start Here

This program will help fearful avoidant individuals overcome destructive patterns and foster deep connections to become securely attached.

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Emotional Healing Program: Start Here
Emotional Healing Program: Start Here

Courses in this program will improve your emotional well-being and facilitate deep personal healing.

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Anxious Preoccupied Path To Secure: Start Here
Anxious Preoccupied Path To Secure: Start Here

This program will help Anxious Preoccupied individuals overcome destructive patterns and foster deep connections to become securely attached.

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Dismissive Avoidant Path to Secure: Start Here
Dismissive Avoidant Path to Secure: Start Here

This program will help dismissive avoidant individuals overcome destructive patterns and foster deep connections to become securely attached

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Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse (Webinar Course)
Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse (Webinar Course)

In this course, we'll talk about what is narcissistic abuse, the signs, and hidden symptoms, how to heal narcissistic abuse and work through grief, the relationship between NPD abuse and CPTSD as well as how to leave a narcissistic relationship.

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Overcoming Burnout and Chronic Stress (Webinar Course)
Overcoming Burnout and Chronic Stress (Webinar Course)

In this course, we'll talk about what burnout is and the 5 stages of burnout. We'll discuss the external and internal causes of burnout such as unmet needs, lack of boundaries, and limiting beliefs as well as nervous system dysregulation.

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The Secure Attachment & Other Attachment Styles Relationship (Webinar Course)
The Secure Attachment & Other Attachment Styles Relationship (Webinar Course)

In this course we will learn all about the relationship dynamic between the Secure attachment and other attachment styles: how their needs, patterns, and love languages interact as well as the steps to reprogram and heal within these dynamics.

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The Dismissive Avoidant & Anxious Preoccupied Relationship (Webinar Course)
The Dismissive Avoidant & Anxious Preoccupied Relationship (Webinar Course)

In this course we will learn all about the relationship dynamic between the Dismissive Avoidant and the Anxious Preoccupied: how their needs, patterns, and love languages interact as well as the steps to reprogram and heal within this dynamic.

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The Fearful Avoidant & Dismissive Avoidant Relationship (Webinar Course)
The Fearful Avoidant & Dismissive Avoidant Relationship (Webinar Course)

In this webinar course we will learn all about the relationship dynamic between the Fearful Avoidant and the Dismissive Avoidant: how their needs, patterns, and love languages interact as well as the steps to reprogram and heal within this dynamic.

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The Fearful Avoidant & Anxious Preoccupied Relationship (Webinar Course)
The Fearful Avoidant & Anxious Preoccupied Relationship (Webinar Course)

In this webinar course we will learn all about the relationship dynamic between the Fearful Avoidant and the Anxious Preoccupied: how their needs, patterns, and love languages interact as well as the steps to reprogram and heal within this dynamic.

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The Fearful Avoidant & The Fearful Avoidant Relationship (Webinar Course)
The Fearful Avoidant & The Fearful Avoidant Relationship (Webinar Course)

In this course, we will learn all about the relationship dynamic between two Fearful Avoidants together, how their needs, patterns and love languages interact as well as the steps to reprogram and heal within this dynamic.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (On Demand)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (On Demand)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 8 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Summer 2022 Live)
Integrated Attachment Theory Certification (Summer 2022 Live)

The Gibson Integrated Attachment Theory Certification Course is a relationship coaching certification developed by Thais Gibson. This in-depth training program spans over the course of 8 weeks and certifies participants to teach IAT.

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How Do You Score in the 6 Most Important Areas of a Relationship?
How Do You Score in the 6 Most Important Areas of a Relationship?

In this course, I'll take you through 6 major areas of a relationship so you can find out how well you score in each area and know where you need to work on the most. It's designed as a 14-day challenge to help you get started on your healing!

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Release Emotions with Somatic Processing
Release Emotions with Somatic Processing

In this course, you will learn techniques for releasing emotions through somatic processing when you are triggered. You'll also learn methods to regulate your nervous system so that you can stay for longer periods in a relaxed and calmed state.

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Attachment Styles & Sex
Attachment Styles & Sex

In this course, we'll learn about the importance of sex in a relationship, why sexual desire might diminish, the frequency of sex in the average couple, as well as the traits and challenges of each attachment style in regards to sex.

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Healthy Habits for Life Mastery
Healthy Habits for Life Mastery

In this course, you will learn what habits are and why they have a huge impact on our lives. We’ll go over morning and evening habits you need to master, as well as things to look out for, as you grow, to avoid self-sabotage.

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The Handbook for a Better Life
The Handbook for a Better Life

In this course, you will learn the core concepts necessary to transform your life: the 12 key principles of the subconscious mind, how to master your emotions, and how to build a foundation to become the best version of yourself!

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Healing Family Trauma & Challenging Family Dynamics
Healing Family Trauma & Challenging Family Dynamics

In this course, you will learn about the 5 top family dynamics, their major wounds and equilibrators. You'll learn about the most common family roles, as well as a 6 step process to transform your relationships one on one with each family member.

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Rebuilding the Relationship to Yourself: Self-Love, Self Compassion & Self-Soothing
Rebuilding the Relationship to Yourself: Self-Love, Self Compassion & Self-Soothing

In this course, you will come to understand the relationship you have with yourself. We'll touch on the subconscious comfort zone, we'll do an audit to understand where we stand, strategies for improvement, as well tools for self-soothing.

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90 Day Challenge
90 Day Challenge

This is the 90 Day Challenge to become Secure. Over the next 3 months you’ll learn, grow and heal many aspects of your life! After 90 days you'll see a shift in your thinking, behavior and relationships. There are certificates awarded for completion.

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Overcoming Perfectionism Trauma & Fear of Losing Control
Overcoming Perfectionism Trauma & Fear of Losing Control

In this course we will discuss differences between adaptive and maladaptive perfectionism. You'll also learn perfectionism's costs, symptoms, root causes, as well as it's output cycles, subconscious programs, and reparenting tools.

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How to Repair Any Relationship
How to Repair Any Relationship

In this course you’ll learn how to repair any relationship: friendships, family dynamics, and romantic relationships! You’ll learn tools for reconciliation, communication tools, strategies to overcome power struggles, and tools for re-bonding.

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Guided Processes For Each Attachment Style
Guided Processes For Each Attachment Style

These guided audio exercises are similar to a guided meditation. They are designed to help you reprogram and reparent some of the most common core wounds and needs for each attachment style. Use them as part of a morning or evening routine.

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Guided Processes Course to Reprogram Core Wounds
Guided Processes Course to Reprogram Core Wounds

These guided audio exercises are similar to a guided meditation. They are designed to help you reprogram and reparent some of the most common core wounds and to develop more awareness. Use them as part of a morning or evening routine.

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Attachment Styles in the Workplace: Habits, Time Management and Productivity
Attachment Styles in the Workplace: Habits, Time Management and Productivity

In this course you'll learn how your attachment style affects you in the workplace. We'll discuss important topics like your strengths, weakness, and fears as well as how you work with others. We'll also discuss time management and choosing a career!

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Setting & Achieving Goals Using your Subconscious Mind
Setting & Achieving Goals Using your Subconscious Mind

In this course we will dissect goal-setting, statistics and how to bring your subconscious mind into alignment with your personality needs. You'll use these tools to get your conscious and subconscious mind working together for profound results.

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Overcoming the Fear of Rejection and Social Anxiety
Overcoming the Fear of Rejection and Social Anxiety

In this course we will discuss the root subconscious causes and impact of both the fear of rejection and social anxiety. You will understand the 9 major roots and how to reprogram each to break through and create relief in your relationships.

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Guided Processes For Reparenting, Reprogramming & Self-Soothing
Guided Processes For Reparenting, Reprogramming & Self-Soothing

These guided audio exercises are similar to a guided meditation. They are ideal for when you are triggered, looking to self-soothe, for reprogramming, reparenting, or to develop more awareness. Use them as part of a morning or evening routine.

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Advanced Core Wounds Course:  Understanding Their Impact and How to Reprogram Them
Advanced Core Wounds Course: Understanding Their Impact and How to Reprogram Them

Throughout this course you will learn what core wounds are. We will look at how to reprogram each individual wound at the thought, belief and emotional level. You will also learn somatic tools for equilibration in this course!

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Advanced Needs Course: Understand, Express, Equilibrate & Reparent Your Needs
Advanced Needs Course: Understand, Express, Equilibrate & Reparent Your Needs

In this course we are going to take a deep dive into the needs quadrant for empowerment. You’ll learn how to express your needs to, and communicate with, others. You’ll also learn how to equilibrate competing needs and reparent your repressed needs.

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Post-Traumatic Growth: A Hero's Journey
Post-Traumatic Growth: A Hero's Journey

In this course you'll learn what trauma is and characteristics of Post-Traumatic Growth. You'll learn the statistics, patterns and habits required to overcome trauma. We'll also look at the 12 key steps to emotional release and subconscious healing.

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Breathwork: Reduce Stress, Improve Performance & Regulate Your Nervous System
Breathwork: Reduce Stress, Improve Performance & Regulate Your Nervous System

In this course we will learn the biomechanics of breath and the impact it has on our health. We'll discuss nose breathing over mouth breathing, the molecules of breath, breath speeds and holds, as well as exercises to help you master your breath.

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Strengthening Self-Identity to Become Secure & Confident
Strengthening Self-Identity to Become Secure & Confident

In this course, you'll learn about self-identity, what an identity crisis is, the 8 stages of identity development as well as the rites of passage required to grow. We’ll dive into getting to know your needs, desires, traits, morals and values.!

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Rebuilding Trust & Overcoming Jealousy in your Relationships
Rebuilding Trust & Overcoming Jealousy in your Relationships

In this course you'll learn what trust is, the causes of broken down trust and how to reprogram or repair trust wounds. We'll also look at the steps to rebuilding trust after a major violation, and core tools to transform jealousy.

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Overcoming Loneliness & Creating Fulfilling Connections
Overcoming Loneliness & Creating Fulfilling Connections

In this course, you will learn about what creates loneliness. You'll also learn about the beliefs, fears, and wounds around connection, and how to reprogram the root causes of loneliness. We'll also discuss the science of connection!

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Expressing your Needs: Scripts for Effective Communication
Expressing your Needs: Scripts for Effective Communication

In this course, you’ll learn what communication is and how different attachment styles communicate. We'll also look at love languages, non-verbal communication, active listening and scripts for communication.

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An Introduction to Conscious Parenting
An Introduction to Conscious Parenting

This course is an introduction to conscious parenting. You will learn what this really is and incredible tools to help you regulate yourself in the role of a parent. You’ll learn about your triggers and shadow as your children are helping you to...

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Principles & Tools for Reprogramming the Subconscious Mind
Principles & Tools for Reprogramming the Subconscious Mind

This course will teach you everything you need to know about reprogramming your subconscious mind! With over 21 reprogramming tools, you’ll be able to pick and choose which tools resonate most with you to help you reprogram anything that is...

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How a Securely Attached Person Shows Up in Each of the 6 Stages of a Relationship
How a Securely Attached Person Shows Up in Each of the 6 Stages of a Relationship

This course will help you to finally understand what a secure and healthy relationship should look like. From this course, you will have a framework modelled to you about how to effectively navigate a relationship and connect deeply with others...

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Release Resentment from Relationships & Learn to Truly Forgive
Release Resentment from Relationships & Learn to Truly Forgive

It is an absolute necessity to keep your “resentment tank on empty” in order for your relationships to thrive. Forgiveness and letting go of resentment in the past is also one of the fundamental cornerstones to creating a happy life. This course...

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How to Heal From a Breakup & Transform Grief
How to Heal From a Breakup & Transform Grief

This is an excellent course for transforming pain associated with a breakup. It is also a course that will help anyone with grief or loss in general. There are very specific components to why we hurt when a relationship ends or when there...

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Setting Boundaries to End Compulsive People-Pleasing & Create Authentic Connections
Setting Boundaries to End Compulsive People-Pleasing & Create Authentic Connections

In this course on boundaries you will finally learn how to create thriving relationships without resentment, exhaustion or distress. You'll learn how to set boundaries in a way that deepens your connections, because you will learn to better...

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Advanced Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style Course:  Your Guide to Thrive in the 6 Stages of a Relationship
Advanced Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style Course: Your Guide to Thrive in the 6 Stages of a Relationship

This course will take you through the Fearful Avoidant experience in each of the 6 Stages of a Relationship. You will learn about the life cycle of a relationship, along with the FA’s patterns in each stage, protest behaviors, fears...

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Mastering Your Abundance Mindset:  Re-programming Your Relationship to Money
Mastering Your Abundance Mindset: Re-programming Your Relationship to Money

Welcome to our Mastering Your Abundance Mindset Course. In this course you will learn your core beliefs that prevent you from achieving freedom and abundance in your life. We all carry specific subconscious programming about...

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Deconstructing and Overcoming Addictive Behaviours: End the War with Yourself
Deconstructing and Overcoming Addictive Behaviours: End the War with Yourself

This course is an excellent course for anyone struggling with addictive patterns of behavior. We look at addictive patterns including love addiction, people-pleasing, codependency, food addiction, alcohol or substance challenges, video games...

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Advanced Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style Course: Your Guide to Thrive in the 6 Stages of a Relationship
Advanced Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style Course: Your Guide to Thrive in the 6 Stages of a Relationship

This course will take you through the Dismissive Avoidant experience in each of the 6 Stages of a Relationship. You will learn about the life cycle of a relationship, along with the DA’s patterns in each stage, protest behaviors, fears...

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Advanced Anxious Attachment Style Course: Your Guide to Thrive in the 6 Stages of a Relationship
Advanced Anxious Attachment Style Course: Your Guide to Thrive in the 6 Stages of a Relationship

This course will take you through the Anxious Attachment experience in each of the 6 Stages of a Relationship. You will learn about the life cycle of a relationship, along with the Anxious’ patterns in each stage, protest behaviors, fears...

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Overcoming Unworthiness & Accepting Your Shadow
Overcoming Unworthiness & Accepting Your Shadow

This is a powerful course for anyone who is struggling to self-love, feel worthy and connect deeply to themselves. Shadow work is one of the single most powerful tools for deep subconscious healing...

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Healthy Balance in Relationships: Ending Codependency & Enmeshment
Healthy Balance in Relationships: Ending Codependency & Enmeshment

This is an extremely important course if you find yourself struggling with boundaries, people-pleasing, assertiveness and harmony in your relationships...

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Transform Depression, Trauma Thoughts & Sadness
Transform Depression, Trauma Thoughts & Sadness

This course will help you to identify major root causes of depressive episodes and sadness. You will then be able to work through the materials to reprogram core thought, belief, and behavioral patterns...

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Conflict Resolution: Speaking Up & Steps to Healthily Resolve Relationship Challenges
Conflict Resolution: Speaking Up & Steps to Healthily Resolve Relationship Challenges

This course will teach you how to find effective resolution in conflicts you are having with other individuals. It will teach you how to speak up, express your feelings and needs, and break down walls between yourself and others.

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Reparenting Your Inner Child to Transcend Attachment Trauma Behaviors
Reparenting Your Inner Child to Transcend Attachment Trauma Behaviors

In this course you'll learn how to re-parent your subconscious mind related to any attachment traumas from childhood (or in adult relationships).

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Eliminate Your Inner Guilt & Shame to Access Your Full Potential
Eliminate Your Inner Guilt & Shame to Access Your Full Potential

Guilt and shame are correlated with a lack of abundance and relationship self-sabotage. Why? Because with stored subconscious guilt and shame, we believe we aren’t worthy of what we want!

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Emotional Mastery & Belief Reprogramming
Emotional Mastery & Belief Reprogramming

In this course, you’ll learn the life-changing rules for being in control of the way that you feel, along with powerful tools to change the limiting beliefs that are preventing you from living your life at the next level! *Recommended for everyone!

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Healthy and Secure Relationships with/for the Emotionally Unavailable Person (Dismissive Avoidant Re-programming Course)
Healthy and Secure Relationships with/for the Emotionally Unavailable Person (Dismissive Avoidant Re-programming Course)

This course will enable you to come to a deeper understanding of the dismissive avoidant. It provides tools for changing and understanding this attachment style in order to create safe and supportive relationships.

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Healthy and Passionate Relationships after Emotional Pain (Re-Programming the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style)
Healthy and Passionate Relationships after Emotional Pain (Re-Programming the Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style)

This course will help you to learn how to trust, heal old wounds, communicate effectively and connect passionately with your partner. *Recommended for the Fearful Avoidant and loved ones of the Fearful Avoidant.

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Stop Abandonment & Rejection in A Relationship (Anxious Attachment Style Re-Programming)
Stop Abandonment & Rejection in A Relationship (Anxious Attachment Style Re-Programming)

If you are tired of feeling overwhelming stress when your partner isn’t available, or struggle to maintain healthy boundaries while in a relationship, this course will help you change these emotional patterns.

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Skyrocket Your Self-Esteem
Skyrocket Your Self-Esteem

This course will help you to transform low self-esteem at the root level so that you can finally feel what is like to experience confidence, empowerment and the freedom to authentically connect with others.

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Discover, Embrace & Fulfill Your Personal Needs
Discover, Embrace & Fulfill Your Personal Needs

In this course you’ll learn who you truly are at your root, what you truly want and how to create a life vision that inspires you. You’ll be able to learn and use strategies to achieve that vision.

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Break Through Self-Sabotage & Procrastination For Good
Break Through Self-Sabotage & Procrastination For Good

Break through sabotaging patterns in relationships, procrastination around work or school, resistance to healthy living, and financial self-sabotage once and for all!

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Overcoming Anxiety for Peace of Mind
Overcoming Anxiety for Peace of Mind

This course will teach you to reprogram your subconscious mind in order to transcend anxiety and create peace. You'll learn about cognitive distortions, subconscious reprogramming and boundaries to transform anxiety for good!

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Mindset Mastery & Life-Mapping Course (A Journey Course)
Mindset Mastery & Life-Mapping Course (A Journey Course)

The Mindset Mastery Course is designed to help you more deeply understand your personal passion and life mission. It will also help you to master an achieving mindset and reverse-engineer the steps necessary to ground your dreams into reality.

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The Key Pillars Necessary to Create a Secure Relationship
The Key Pillars Necessary to Create a Secure Relationship

Learn major pillars that are important for relationships and how to re-program core wounds, unhealthy behaviors, and barriers to connection that prevent you from achieving joy and fulfillment.

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Hi, I’m Thais!

I’m a personal development expert, best-selling author and founder of The Personal Development School.

After completing my master’s degree and over 13 different certifications in a variety of disciplines such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Hypnosis, Somatic Experiencing and more – I ran an extremely busy client-based practice for the better part of a decade.

Now I help clients across the globe transform their relationships and overcome lifelong emotional challenges through the Personal Development School.

Since co-creating the Personal Development School, and my years of research and client experience, I have become a leading authority on healing attachment trauma, and have built a thriving membership and online community, including over 10 million views on YouTube.

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  • Transform “situationships” into healthy and clear relationship dynamics where you can stop wondering and chasing
Join Today To Get Instant Access To:
  • Our library of 55+ video courses (and counting) to heal your emotions, thinking and relationships
  • Weekly webinars and Q&A sessions where you can ask me questions and get even more support (all are recorded so you’ll never miss out)
  • Community support to suit your needs, including our online forum and weekly support groups led by our trained coaches
  • Understanding your needs so you can finally feel understood and connected to the people in your life
  • Understanding the needs of others so that you can understand them and not take their actions personally
  • Wipe out limiting beliefs so that you can feel confident, empowered and authentic when it comes to love
  • Set boundaries so that you can feel safe and free to express yourself (and stop getting burnt out!)
  • Leave the past behind so you can heal your heart, move on from past wounds and have a powerful reset in your personal life
  • Hold healthy standards in relationship so you don’t settle for less than you deserve
  • Transform “situationships” into healthy and clear relationship dynamics where you can stop wondering and chasing
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Questions You Might Have
Before Starting Your 14-Day FREE Trial

If you haven’t already done so, go to our website and take the Attachment Style Quiz to learn your attachment style. Then once you have signed up for your free trial, login to the members area and download our Course Guide to discover which courses you should start with.

After your trial ends, you’ll automatically become a monthly member and be charged $67/month to retain access to everything.

But if you feel it’s not the right fit for you, there is zero obligation and you can cancel before your trial ends by logging into the members area.

Absolutely! If you decide to become a member after your trial expires, you can still cancel any time. Plus, we also offer a no-questions asked 7-day money-back guarantee – meaning there is zero risk if you become a member.

Sure! You get access to over 45 courses to reprogram your attachment style, improve your relationships and gain emotional mastery.

You also get access to weekly live webinars and Q&A calls, and all of our past recordings. Plus, access to our members-only forum and Facebook group, as well as online study groups and social events so you can get additional support and connect with likeminded members.