The Member's Lounge
Welcome to the Member’s Lounge! This area is for All-Access Pass holders only, and gives you the chance to connect directly with Thais and others in our community.
Enter the Upvote Forum below to ask Thais your questions directly. All questions can be voted on by members to be answered depending on whether or not they also relate to other people. The questions with the most Upvotes will be answered weekly by Thais!
ASK EACH OTHER
In this Forum, you will be able to discuss your questions with other members of the School. Find popular topics discussed in the Forum such as Attachment Theory, relationships & more!
Want to learn even more? Check out Thais’ past and future Live Webinars to gain access to exclusive content!
FOR THRIVING RELATIONSHIPS
EMOTIONAL STATE REPROGRAMMING
INTRODUCTION & LIVE Q&A
HOW TO HEAL
FROM A BREAKUP
HOW TO REMOVE
SUBCONSCIOUS LIMITING BELIEFS
HOW TO COMMUNICATE
AM/PM Routines, Socials & Study Groups
You can use the link below to book a self-discovery, or self-love routine in the morning, or an intention and connection routine in the evening. You can also book study groups, a sharing circle or socials with either Mike Di Zio or Joanna Lach!
The purpose of the morning routine is to begin your day with clear intentions. If we set a goal or direction, we are setting the tone for our day. The morning routine will also enable you to fill your personal "buckets", and will fulfill needs like social connection, emotional connection, personal growth, or novelty! The purpose of the evening routines is to reflect on your day and effectively downregulate. We want to look at what we’ve accomplished to reinforce our upward momentum. We’ll also use this time to reflect on subconscious reprogramming tools as a group, and review our “wins” for the day to help with self-esteem.
The evening socials will be a time to share what’s on your mind, interact with other like-minded learners from the personal development community, and enjoy personal connection!
The sharing circles, also known as healing circles, offer a safe and accepting environment in which to explore your feelings. This is your opportunity to speak on how you feel or anything you would like to share with a small and supportive group.
Finally, the study groups are a place for you to review the workbooks and course material as a group. Enjoy!
Looking to connect with others? Join our live chat to discuss your learnings with other members! Please note that this chat is moderated, and that any inappropriate behavior will result in the immediate removal of your PDS account.
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Enjoy communicating with others in the community, and as always, be open, kind and helpful to those around you!
- The Personal Development School Team
Attachment coaches will help you to make the most out of your personal development journey with PDS. Your Attachment Coach has been trained to help you progress effectively and efficiently through your courses. They have been trained extensively by Thais and are equipped with the knowledge required to set you on a path of personal development success.
Member's Bonus Worksheets
Here are some examples of healthy ways to communicate feelings and needs in different situations. Use these scripts as a guide if you're feeling stuck and need some help communicating!
Personality Needs with Strategies
Below you'll find the document from the Advanced Needs Course; Understand, Express, Equilibrate & Reparent Your Needs. You can view and edit this document on how to get your needs met!