How Do You Score In The 6 Most Important Areas Of A Relationship?

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Want a relationship that ignites all the right fireworks… without sending your nervous system into chaotic overdrive?

Or do you crave more closeness and a deeper connection with your partner?

Or are you tired of the same issues showing up… no matter how many times you meet someone new and you promise yourself, "This time it (and I) will be different."

I can totally relate. I used to struggle with all of these things too.

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Until I learned this:

It doesn't matter...

  • how intense the attraction
  • or how kind, empathetic, successful, ambitious, interesting, smart, good-looking (or whatever traits you have on your must-have list) your partner is
  • or how much of a catch you are
  • or how many times you start over again
  • none of these things will matter if you score low in the 6 most important areas of a relationship.

In fact, if you score low in these 6 critical areas, you'll continue to repeat the same relationship patterns that lead to arguments, stress, anxiety, insecurity, avoidance and even breakups.

Why Most Relationship Advice Falls Short

The tricky thing is that these 6 factors are buried deep into your subconscious mind – so they're not so easy to spot or to understand.

But despite being hard to recognize, they're running on autopilot 24/7.

In fact, a little like a computer, your subconscious patterns act as your “hard drive” that dictates how you act, think and behave in relationships.

What this means is that no matter how many times you tell your thinking brain (aka your conscious mind) to act differently – i.e. "to be more confident this time" – it doesn't work long term.

This is why a lot of dating advice falls short.

Simply put: your conscious mind CAN'T outwill the subconscious mind.

The only thing that can override it are proven techniques that speak its language.

The Shortcut To Building Happy, Healthy Relationships That Feel Easy

The Shortcut To Building Happy, Healthy Relationships That Feel Easy

But before you can upgrade any subconscious patterns that might be getting in the way of lasting love, you first need to identify what your unique patterns are.

This is why I've created this short course to help you get a clear understanding of how you score in the 6 most important areas that make or break a relationship.

This type of self awareness usually takes YEARS of soul searching – and in some instances, many painful relationships – to unpack, but with the tools and exercises – you'll have a “blueprint” of your subconscious relationship programming in less than two weeks.

What's more, once you truly know yourself – you'll be able to choose your relationships from a healthier place rather than letting your subconscious patterns (which you inherited from your childhood) choose your relationships for you.

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The tricky thing is that these 6 factors are buried deep into your subconscious mind – so they're not so easy to spot or to understand.

Throughout this journey of self-discovery, you'll receive 7 short video modules explaining each area, and a workbook with proven tools, techniques and exercises to help you assess how you score.

Plus you'll get a clear plan on how to break free from any behaviors that might be keeping you stuck in unfulfilling or challenging relationships so you can start improving your love life today.

You'll also discover how subconscious programming not only affects you, but your loved ones too – so you'll gain a deeper understanding of the dynamics that underpin all of your relationships.

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  • 6 relationship modules with quizzes to determine your relationship score
  • Access to our online Facebook community
  • BONUS: Workbook with proven exercises and techniques

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The end result? You'll walk away knowing EXACTLY why some issues keep showing up in your love life, what your core challenges are, and what you need in a relationship to truly thrive. Plus, you'll be given proven and practical recommendations on how you can transform any patterns that might be sabotaging your relationships.

Who is this Course For?

This course is for anyone who would like to uncover their core relationship patterns and gain profound self-awareness to improve their relationships.

No matter whether you're single, in a relationship or something in between, if you've ever wondered why certain behaviors show up in relationships, or why patterns keep repeating, or why relationships feel so challenging – this course will shed light on these answers and give you actionable steps you can take to improve your relationships with yourself and others immediately.

Looking For Love



Discover your relationship patterns so you can grow and attract the right relationship.

Strengthen Your Relationship

Gain deeper self-awareness of your patterns to improve your relationship.

Overcome Relationship Challenges

Discover your key challenges and get result-orientated recommendations on how to overcome them.

Module One:

DISCOVER YOUR NEEDS

Do you know what your unique needs are in a relationship? In this module, you'll discover what you need to feel happy, safe and connected in your relationships – and how well your existing relationships are meeting your needs.

Module Two:

Discover Your Boundaries Style & Score

Are you clear on what's a “yes!” and what's a “no!” in your relationship? By understanding your boundaries (and being true to them), you'll feel more seen, heard, respected and understood in your relationships. A side effect of this is that your self-esteem will increase too!

Module Three:

Discover Your Relationship Fears & Core Beliefs

Are your fears around relationships holding you back? In this module, you'll discover what your biggest fears are and start the process of reprogramming them so you can release them for good.

Module Four:

Discover Your Codependency Score

In this module you'll discover why codependent patterns can sabotage relationships and can cause significant anxiety and distress. You'll also learn what your codependency score is so you can assess how you're doing and start the healing process.

Module Five:

Discover Your Self-Love Score

You'll discover how you show up in your most important relationship – the relationship with yourself! You'll learn why self-love matters and how you can consistently shower yourself with it each and every day.

Module Six:

Discover Your Attachment Style

In this module, you'll go through a quiz to discover what your attachment style is so you can understand your strengths and challenges in love – and start the process of feeling more secure and connected in relationships so that they last.

Plus, You'll Also Get A Workbook With Proven Exercises And Techniques

Plus, You'll Also Get A Workbook With Proven Exercises And Techniques

To help you dive deep into your subconscious mind, you'll also get a workbook that contains cutting-edge tools and techniques to help you assess and score your relationship patterns.

    In this workbook you'll get:
  • Powerful exercises so you can audit how you're showing up in 6 key areas
  • Tools you can revisit over and over again to get a "pulse check" on the health of your relationships
  • Techniques you can use to improve your relationships right now
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A Self-Discovery Process Like No Other Uncover Your Subconscious Patterns And Discover What's Truly Important To You

A Self-Discovery Process Like No Other Uncover Your Subconscious Patterns And Discover What's Truly Important To You

Even if you've done some work on the above 6 areas before, this course will give you a score to assess how you're doing, and highlight any opportunities for growth.

You'll have a clear blueprint explaining what's been getting in your way of your ideal relationship, and more importantly, what you can do about it.

You'll learn...

  • Why certain (or maybe all) of your relationships have felt challenging or not worked out
  • Which of the 6 areas you need to work on so can feel seen, understood, loved and experience the deep connection you deeply desire and deserve
  • How to consciously choose relationships that serve you (rather than letting your subconscious patterns choose for you)
  • How you can transform any subconscious patterns that have been keeping you stuck in unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships

PLUS…

You’ll save yourself YEARS of confusion, frustration and possible heartache because in just two weeks, you’ll identify patterns that take most people years – or even a lifetime – to work out.

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On The Fence? Here Are Two Alternatives...

On The Fence? Here Are Two Alternatives...

Generally there are two alternatives if you decide this course is not for you.

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1. Years Of Research And Self-Inquiry

I’m a HUGE advocate of doing research and self-exploration, however sorting through the never-ending plethora of “How To” self-help books, blogs and YouTube videos to find the right insights that apply to you can be overwhelming and time consuming. It can also be difficult to know who to trust and whether their solution will work for you.

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2. Traditional Talk Therapy

While therapy can be extremely helpful and healing, it can also get very expensive and take many months (or even years) to unpack your life experiences so that you can understand more about yourself.

Don’t get me wrong, I think therapy is very important, after all, I was a counselor for many years! So to be clear, this course is NOT a replacement for therapy, especially where trauma is concerned. But what it will give you is a practical blueprint within two weeks to help you identify how you score in the 6 most important areas of a relationship.

In short: it’ll save you days, weeks, months or maybe even YEARS of trying to understand why some issues keep repeating in your love life, or why relationships often feel so hard.

“I’ve researched relationships most of my life. However, I couldn’t find anything that explained my dynamic in them. I thought about therapy until I stumbled upon Thais’ YouTube channel. She explained EXACTLY what I was experiencing. She literally read my mind! I’m usually a bit of a skeptic but I was hooked! I finally figured out my problem and how to solve it!

I’ve been in the school for a year now. I view the world with a whole different lens. I’ve learned more about who I am in a year than I have in a lifetime. I highly recommend the All Access or Lifetime Pass. It’s a comprehensive program that WILL change your life if you put in the work. Definitely worth the VALUE!”

- Melissa K.

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Hi, I’m Thais!

I’m a personal development expert, best-selling author and founder of The Personal Development School.

After completing my master’s degree and over 13 different certifications in a variety of disciplines such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,, Somatic Experiencing and more – I ran an extremely busy client-based practice for the better part of a decade.

Now I help clients across the globe transform their relationships and overcome lifelong emotional challenges through the Personal Development School.

Since co-creating the Personal Development School, and my years of research and client experience, I have become a leading authority on healing attachment trauma, and have built a thriving membership and online community, including over 12 million views on YouTube.

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I know that the tools and techniques I teach work because they’ve helped thousands of people heal their emotions and improve.

But if you don’t create a stronger relationship with your partner or yourself within the next 7 days, we’ll refund 100% of your money back!

Disclaimer: you must show that you did the workbook exercises as this is where the real breakthroughs happen!

Let’s Say Goodbye To Subconscious Relationship Patterns & Unfulfilling Relationships...

Let’s Say Goodbye To Subconscious
Relationship Patterns & Unfulfilling Relationships...

... and "hello" to a more self-aware and empowered version of YOU who creates and builds relationships from a conscious and healthy place

With this 14-day challenge for just $29, you’re going to learn some of my best tools and techniques that I spent close to a decade researching, creating and using with thousands of clients and students.

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Here’s A Quick Recap Of What You’ll Get:

  • Module 1: Discover Your Needs
  • Module 2: Discover Your Boundaries Style
  • Module 3: Discover Your Relationship Fears
  • Module 4: Discover Your Codependency Score
  • Module 5: Discover Your Self-Love Score
  • Module 6: Discover Your Attachment Style

PLUS: A workbook with proven tools, techniques and exercises to help you assess how you score in each area AND practical action steps so you can start improving your relationships today.

BONUS: You’ll also get access to our private Facebook Group where you can share your progress, ask questions and get support.

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Questions You Might Have
Before Joining The Challenge

Questions You Might Have Before Joining The Challenge

This short course is designed to highlight your relationship blueprint by scoring you in the 6 areas that are critical to a happy, thriving relationship.

Or in other words, it’s little like taking a used car to the mechanic. It’s not until you look under the hood and run some tests that you see how the car is performing. Only then do you know if there are any issues that need some care. This course is the equivalent, but for your love life.

Plus, at the end of each module, I’ll give you key recommendations on how you can improve any areas you think need some attention.

No matter whether you’re single, in a relationship or something in between, if you’ve ever wondered why certain behaviors show up in relationships, or why patterns keep repeating, or why relationships feel so challenging – this course will shed light on these answers and give you actionable steps you can take to improve your relationships with yourself and others immediately.

The tools and techniques I teach at the Personal Development School have helped thousands of students become more securely attached and improve their relationships – so I know they work.

But if after 7 days you don’t feel like the relationship to yourself or your partner has strengthened from the powerful insights you’ll learn, I’ll gladly refund you your money. All I ask is that you show you completed the workbook exercises as this is where the magic happens!

As soon as you join, you’ll receive access to the entire course. But we recommend that you go through a new module every other day so you’re able to digest the information in each module slowly as this is deep work! Don’t worry – we’ll email you guidance and prompts to keep you on track too.

Absolutely – you get forever access! So you can go through it as many times as you need. The 14-challenge is to help keep you accountable so you can start the new year off feeling empowered and clear on how you can improve your relationships. But you can go through this course as often and for as long as you need.

We recommend setting aside an hour a day. Each video module is less than 15 minutes – but you’ll need extra time to go through the workbook exercises and for contemplation.

Tip: If you have the time, watch the videos first thing in the morning and do the workbook exercises. And then revisit what you wrote in the evening (or the following morning) to give yourself some additional time to absorb the information and assess how you’re doing. The other reason being: your brain is more suggestible first thing in the morning and before bed, meaning this is the perfect time to do this kind of self reflection.

You’ll also get access to our private Facebook Group where you can share your progress, ask questions and get support from other students from the Personal Development School. This is a great place to connect with like-minded individuals going through similar struggles and transformations as you. Plus, me and my team also jump in from time to time to respond to comments and give additional support.